How to Move a Parent with Dementia to Assisted Living?

The journey of transitioning a parent to an assisted living community can be a daunting, emotionally charged process. And there isn’t a one-size-fits-all answer on how to move a parent with dementia to assisted living because each family dynamic is its own. But a few things to consider include:

• Open discussion among the family
• Choose a suitable community
• Prepare for the transition
• Help your parent settle in

A key thing to consider is that most assisted living communities are not equipped to handle people with dementia. So, depending on the progression and symptoms of your parent’s dementia, memory care could be the more suitable option.

Understanding Assisted Living

Assisted living is a supportive environment for older adults needing help with daily activities, minor medical oversight, and social interaction. However, these communities are not meant for seniors who require 24/7 medical care. The primary purpose of an assisted living community is to provide care plans and services that help older adults sustain their independence while receiving necessary support.

Is It Time for Assisted Living?

Being able to recognize when it may be time for your parent to transition to an assisted living community is necessary. Some signs to look out for include:

• Forgetfulness that affects their daily life
• Struggles with daily tasks like getting dressed, cooking, or cleaning
• Increased safety concerns like falling or getting around their home

What Is Memory Care?

Many assisted living communities also incorporate memory care programs, and some communities are dedicated to providing only memory care support.

Memory care is a specialized subtype of assisted living designed for people with dementia or other memory-related conditions. It provides a secure environment equipped with specially trained staff who understand the distinctive needs and challenges of individuals with memory loss.

Memory care communities offer structured programs, activities, and therapies to help enhance cognitive functioning, improve quality of life, and instill a sense of purpose in older adults with dementia.

Moving a Parent with Dementia to Memory Care

Deciding to transition a parent with dementia to memory care is a significant decision and requires some planning.

Open Discussion Among the Family

Open, honest communication within the family is vital. Arrange family meetings to discuss the options, share concerns, and make a collective, informed decision. Given the emotionally charged nature of the subject, patience, empathy, and understanding are key during these discussions.

Choose a Suitable Community

When searching for the right senior community, consider the following aspects:

• Safety precautions: Prioritize secure environments that deter wandering and have emergency response systems in place.
• Staff-to-resident ratio: A lower ratio implies more customized care.
• Activities and programs: Confirm whether they offer services and activities tailored to cognitive abilities and interests.

During your visit, evaluate the cleanliness of the community, observe how staff interact with residents, and inquire about their experience with dementia care.

Prepare for the Transition

Preparing a parent for the move is a sensitive task. Gradually introduce the idea by highlighting the benefits of assisted living or memory care.

Engage them in decision-making as often as you can and reassure them about their safety and the caring environment they’ll be moving into. While packing your parents’ belongings, include familiar items that bring comfort and familiarity.

Label belongings clearly to avoid confusion. Create a checklist so all essential items like clothing, toiletries, medications, and personal keepsakes are packed. Keep the packing process uncluttered and peaceful to keep your parent at ease. The moving process can be emotionally taxing for both parent and family. On the moving day, consider hiring professional movers if necessary and planning the move to steer clear of peak hours.

Continuous emotional support is needed for your parent. Be present, listen to their concerns, and offer comfort. Involve other family members in the process as well to provide additional support.

Help Your Parent Settle In

Assisting your parent in adapting to their new environment requires patience and encouragement. Help them personalize their living space with familiar items to create a homey atmosphere.

Maintaining familial connections is key to your parent’s emotional well-being. Visit regularly during the initial weeks to provide reassurance and help them adjust. Schedule regular visits, calls, and video chats to stay connected. Encourage other family members and friends to visit, fostering a supportive community around your parent.

But always balance this with your loved one’s needs because too much stimulation could become an issue. So, stay in contact with your loved one’s caregivers so everyone is on the same page.

Continued Support with Rosemark at Mayfair Park

Transitioning a parent with dementia to long-term care is a significant decision that requires time, thoughtful consideration, and meticulous planning. Know that you are not alone on this journey. Rosemark at Mayfair Park and our compassionate team are here if you need extra support or guidance. Contact us today if you have questions or want to book a community tour.